Let’s get back to joy

My whole life, I’ve been curious about relationships —
about what helps them work, and what makes them hurt.

In my own marriage, I learned how to build joy, trust, and security
without abandoning myself in the process.

How to care for my nervous system
and create a relationship that feels alive.
How to be deeply connected
and still be me.

I wanted a marriage that felt like being with my best friend —
not something I had to survive.

When this piece clicks into place,
relationships stop feeling like work
and life starts to feel more joyful again.